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Taking your stand

Debra Totton
29 Nov 2010
General, School
Comments: 0
bullying, bystander choice continuum, choices, Debra J. Totton LCSW, fighting, options, support, violence

How many times have you heard the term, “Fight! Fight!” or “Girl fight!” on campus where you attend school?  Weekly, daily, or more frequently?  Then it seems as if everyone rushes to where the fight is happening to watch.  Some kids actively get involved by getting some punches in.  Some egg it on, yelling for their favorite fighter.  Some video record and upload the YouTube, but many stand by and watch. read more

Natural Consequences

Debra Totton
21 Sep 2008
Parenting
Comments: 2
accountable, authoritarian parent, authoritative parent, choices, Debra J. Totton LCSW, external control, indulgent parent, internal control, natural consequences, parent struggles, Parenting, uninvolved parent

It seems to be everywhere.  Whether I am shopping, sitting on the beach or in a restaurant, I see parents “struggling” with their children.  It could be a physical battle or a war of words.  The issues don’t matter.  It could be about wanting more candy, more privileges or just more than what the parent feels is good for the child/teen. read more

Debra J.Totton, LCSW
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